Monday, February 22, 2016

5 Things to do to be Happy

Of all things that happens in our lives everyday, there are things that might makes us happy or unhappy. Not to let the unhappiness clouding our lives, I am presenting these couple tricks to overcome the unhappiness that might occur whether we want them or not. 

1. Stop Caring Too Much

"Those who cares doesn't matter and those who matters doesn't care"
I just stop caring all together.
Stop caring too much of what people talk about you. Those who wonder about your life and are commenting to all your actions all the time are most probably just want something to talk about. In short, they do not really care. They just want to know and want something to talk about (gossiping). For me, this kinda people is the negatif people that you should get rid of from your life. 

2. Be Grateful of Your Choices, Stop Regretting Things Could Have Been Better.

In our lives, there are no right or wrong answers. The only thing that you can do is to:
"Make the decision that you take the correct ones"

Do not think too much about what-ifs. There will be endless of what-ifs and you might never be happy because you will always think about how things will be different if that time you are doing a different action or take different choices. Do not think too much about things that all ready happens. More over, those things in the past that cannot be change. This takes us to the next points: Live in the Present.

3. Live in the Present

This is a cliche, but true. Think about it, we are only living in 3 time frame: The past, The present, and The future.

The 3 of them are equally important.
You need to look back into the past to learn from your mistakes and experienced.
You need to look forward to the future to have hope, dreams, goals, and to improve and achieve more than today.
However, many of us today forget the fact that we are living in the present, Now. This moments, today. Many of us look to much into the uncertainty of the future that makes them a worrywart.
Many of us who are not happy with our condition, comparing and regretting the choices that we made to come to this point in life. They live in the past.

These people are not enjoying NOW.
You can learn more from Master Oogway - Kungfu Panda

Today is a gift. 
For me, personally, today is a redemption for yesterdays mistakes and the foundation for tomorrows success. 
Cherish it, Use it to the max. Because tomorrow might never come and yesterday cannot be repeated. 

4. Choose your inner circle carefully

Have you heard that your personality is a mixture of your 5 closest people?
Well, your circle of friends does influence you directly or indirectly. Now the problem is will they be the good, better, or bad influence for you. 
As they are the one who will influence you the most, shouldn't you be more selective? 
You can have many friends, but trust those who you "feel" can be trusted. Sometimes, our heart is much more sharper than our brain for things like trust.

5. Accept yourself, all your strengths and weaknesses

The final and most important things to do, for you to be truly happy is to be yourself. This way, you will not have to try to be someone you are not. It is tiring to wear a mask all the time. You will also find people who like you for who you are. 
However, this is kinda impossible if you cannot accept who you truly are. 
You have to acknowledge that you are imperfect human, living in your own imperfections. 
Some of us are able to inspire others from how they deal with their imperfections ex: Nick Vuijic. 
How awesome is he!?

Well, as a plus points, Share!

Do not be stingy. Share everything that your heart allows you too. They more you give, the more you receive. Believe me.