PFL BCA - Personal Adjustment & T Group

Many would ask where is the T-Group post? 

Why haven't I post it when I was already done with the in-class training? 

Haha. I was busy and I am having difficulties in writing this post. 

There are lots of things happen at once. The re-discovery, the confession, the group sharing (which needs a hell lotta trust), and lots of other things!

This is a part of our training program. We are required to join another self-development training. Unlike the Valuable Person Training, other programs like PSPO are also required to join this one. 

The training will be focusing on self-healing and self-discovery. 

It will give us the in-depth view of what personality we have (the 16 personalities) and the "T" in the "T Group" stands for "Therapy Group".

This time the training will be held at GMS HRD Consultant at Avia Hotel and Resort, Bogor on 12-13 November 2015.

This time, no other group was joining in. Its just the 20 of us.

At first, we were told to write some of our most scarred memories, favorite numbers, our hopeful achievements, and the 20 "I" statement. 

Then, we were taught about the 16 personalities in details. 

I honestly have tried the test myself on 16personalities.com

And this is what I got on the website: ENFP (T)

(Extroverted iNtuitive Feeling Prospecting)

ENTP with Turbulent identity. I got the same result from the Psychologist. 


At first, she didn't believe that I am an 'N' as N type is very rare. I was ask to re-do the test and I got the same result. She was still in doubt. 
Not until after I tell her my stories that she was convinced that I am indeed an 'N' type personalities. 


ENFP is a marketer and a motivator.
I recently realize these talents of mine. 


The 'theraphy' part is also quite new and interesting. We were formed into group of 4 and we were assigned different psychologist. Then, we will talk about our self, our family, our journey.
You might have heard that there will be lot of tears, it is true.
You might think that your life is simple and smooth, or your friends (which always smile) might be so good as well. But that is not always the case. 

In the 20++ years of our life, we (of course) at some point in our life was hurt and sometimes that 'event or continuous same events' may have left a deep scar within us that may affects how we live our life.

This training is for us to open our self and to heal from previous wounds so that we can learn and be free from the unnecessary boundaries. 

For BCA, this is for them to know us better. Our potentials and shortcomings.

Do not worry about extra sensitive topics or your bitter past. 

I believe that the psychologists have their oath and patients' secrecy.

They will at the end of the therapy session give us some advice and read out our traits. 

Be the first to tell the stories!

This is your chance to get to know who you are and for BCA to get to know you.

Do not hide and do not conceal. Let your true self shine! 

What I get from this training?

• The website 16personalities.com is accurate for me but not for some of my friends. Not sure. It is whether they didn't understand the questions as it was in English or something else.

• I get to know for sure what personalities I am and what jobs will be suitable for me.

• I realized that behind every happy person, there are scars that they are trying to hide and that every single person in this world at some point of their lives has received 'scars' that they will hide for the rest of their life.

• I learn to be grateful.

• I learn to let go of problems and the past.

• I learn to know other types of personalities and how to deal with them.

• I get the reassurance of what I want to do in the future.

We also get certificate from this trainings!

Well, there is not much to write about and I am not taking any pictures. LOL.

- cya next time -

BCA Frontliner Program (PFL) - Outbound Primasi at Ciawi Bogor

As a part of becoming a great CSO (a.k.a. employee of BCA bank), we are required to attend the training with Primasi, they are professional competency training company. As they are partnered with BCA for quite a long time already, I believe that they are qualified for the job! Although I personally think it is quite packed and too fast paced. 

BCA PFL CSO SCHEDULE

We were given a schedule on our first day trainee day, stating that we will be off for "Personal Excellence Program" on our third day for 3 days and 2 nights stay at Bogor, Ciawi (1-2 hours from West Jakarta). We were suppose to be at our meeting point, which is Wisma Asia by 6 AM as the bus will took off at 6.15 sharp. This is a big challenge for those living far from the meeting point! 

Ps: if you missed the bus, you will need to find your own transport as the program is compulsory. 

Our schedule was held along with PAO and PRO group! Although we were seperated most of the time on the program. 

PFL CSO 14
Wednesday 30 September 2015, 5.45 AM - Waiting for the Bus to take us to Ciawi, Bogor, Indonesia

We are going to stay at Santa Monica Resort at Ciawi. Phone are not allowed during the in class and out-door session and we are very busy as our schedule is quite packed. I managed to take some picture on our last day, and some are the pictures taken by our instructor.

Just arrived!

When we first arrived, we were given hot milo each (all the drinks here is extremely sweet!!). Then we were all be assigned to our rooms, 3 people in each room, to put down our stuff and to rest for a while. 

I was staying at Room Cherry 7B with 2 of my other friends, Stella and Rizky (girl)

The rooms look like some old wooden cottage. It is quite clean but humid as the resort itself was located on the mountain area. 

Each cottage has 2 rooms attached side by side by a thin wall.
You can hear your neighbouring room very very clear!
Be careful! Walls really have ears here!

Our room is the far end of the small cottage

There are 4 beds on the room and one toilet on the left. Doors are on the right of this picture.

Our Messy Bed.
There are 4 beds per room. The bed cover is smelly as it is quite humid.

This is why people are saying the BCA really take care of its employees! 

I get to meet awesome people and experienced great things! And I heard the training normally cost 5 million Rupiah per person! What an investment! 

Our room was located at the end of the stairways. I love how it looks on this picture! Haha!

The resort is quite vast! There are couple of separated field used for games!

I cannot tell too much about the games and in class lesson, as there will be competition involves and I think it will diminish the fun and mystery of the unknown if you get too much information beforehand. 

What I get from the 3 days and 2 night trip is that we were taught to:

• Believe in ourselves as we are great and blessed individuals! 

• Understand the importance of TEAM, COMMUNICATION, and DISCIPLINE.

• We learn the correct attitude to serve people (customer focus) 

• We learn how to get ourselves away from normal paradigm.

• We learn the theories in class and practice them ourselves outdoor! Therefore we really felt that we understand! Deeply and greatly.

• For fresh graduates, this is a really good programs as it helps you guys to transition from collage to work place. I didn't get this kind of luxury back then. I struggle a lot during my transition period.

Taken In Class before the closing ceremony

On the first day, I can't wait for this activity to be done and go home. But on the last day, I feel a little bit sad by the thoughts that this activity is finally done today. 

Oh, we also get a certificate at the end of the last day.

Certificate from Primasi

Tips:

• Come on time!
• Bring extra towel, they only provide 2 towels in each room.

• Bring extra clothing, I brought 4 Tees, 3 trousers, 1 PJ and half dozens of undies. Bring more if you want to swim. They have quite a big swimming pool.

• Bring your own toiletries, they only provide small soap bars and tooth brush/paste.

• Bring sport shoes and sandals, some of the in door class allows you to wear sandals, but it is up to you to decide whichever comfortable.

• Do not wear clean trousers/shorts for morning outdoor activity. The soil is wet, therefore your pants will get wet! I wear mine twice! LOL!

• Just bring simple make-up tools, most of the time, you will just could not bother to wear any because your are too tired and you are going to sweat it away anyway. 

• Bring your own water bottle.

• Sleep well the day before. You will need all the energy you have.

• Do not need to eat breakfast on the first day. Breakfast will be provided on the bus.

• Bring you jacket, it is quite cold at some night

• Do not forget sunscreen, I got tan :'(

• Bring Hairdryer!! I regret not bringing mine. I look like a mess with my hair super wet. 

• Open your mind! Be ready to receive dozens of information! ☺️

I have had a great time!!